Family law-When writing to letter to the judge. What information would be pertinent to put in and what should you avoid?You do not write letters to judges. Online Form Preparation and eFiling, Pay a Traffic Ticket, Probate Notes, Remote Access Resource List, Self-Help Resources, Forms and Rules You cannot write a letter to the family court judge. This would be considered an ex parte communication. If you need an emergency order, you can ask a judge for one in your family law case. For example, in a divorce, domestic violence, or a parentage case. TurboCourt will ask you questions and use your answers to fill out the forms you need for your family law case. Fill out a Request for Order form.