This page tells you about how to file for a divorce, legal separation or nullity. Divorce can be complicated.Family law-When writing to letter to the judge. What information would be pertinent to put in and what should you avoid? Always address a judge as "Your Honor". It doesn't matter if you are speaking or writing, or in or out of court. Each form packet has an instruction sheet and a sample packet to guide you page-by-page through the forms. Would like to know the best way to communicate the problems I am having with the other party so that we can resolve them. You cannot send a letter to the Judge, it would be an inappropriate communication. It thoroughly details search and recovery strategies and contains advice for attorneys, prose- cutors, and family court judges handling these cases.