A character letter to a judge should establish your credibility, paint a full picture of the defendant and be respectful, among other things. Include specific examples of how the person has helped you or someone else, or how he or she has been a leader or an inspiration.The first paragraph should tell the judge who you are writing to him about and how you know the defendant. You'd also want to say how long you have known her. Defend a friend or family member's moral character in court. Use our Character Reference Letter for Court template to easily write your document. I am writing this letter on behalf of a former student of mine who is presently before you on criminal charges and is due to be sentenced shortly. Agenda Item 14 from October 12, 2004 Commissioners Court Voting Session. First, introduce yourself and explain your relationship to your boyfriend and how long you've been together. December 1835 and February 1836.