Sample Pre-‐Mediation Letter from Patrick Malone. See confidentiality discussion in paragraph 2.I propose to settle your claim against me for (describe in detail the claim). My offer to you is _____. That is basically a request for me to reject a settlement opportunity; decline it kindly, and with appreciation. Reserve your insulting comments. Generally the form is as follows. A week later, appellants publicly filed a memorandum of law opposing Cook's motion in limine. The memorandum described portions of Cook's settlement offer. " In the example below all .