Intheblanks form required for any matter originating and electronically filed in Supreme or Surrogate's Courts in Richmond County. Call out your case name or your adversary's firm name.Then begin filling out a compliance conference order form. In many cases, attorneys do meet with opposing counsel to discuss various aspects of a case. These meetings can be part of the standard legal process. Mediators are human. My default rule is to not trust opposing counsel - if they're unexpectedly calling, I assume they have something to say that they don't want in writing. If you have retained counsel, they will need to file a notice of appearance and send it to opposing counsel, letting them know they are representing you. If you believe the law and facts favor your position, explain that and stand firm. For instance, keep calm and do not react.