You can do is to end your membership in The UMC. The Book of Discipline provides that members can be removed from the membership role if they "transfer, die or have withdrawn from membership."If the member does not comply with any of the available alternatives over a period of two years, the member's name may be removed. The Historical Volume Church Records Western Pennsylvania Conference of The United Methodist Church was last printed in 2003. If a pastor is informed that a member has without notice united with a church of another denomination, the pastor shall make diligent inquiry. These include rent or mortgage, utilities, bathroom safety. Send a letter requesting removal, the board will have to vote on it and they usually require an official request. If you are an employee or volunteer of any of these groups, you can join!