This form is a sample letter in Word format covering the subject matter of the title of the form.
This form is a sample letter in Word format covering the subject matter of the title of the form.
Communicate Personally and Respectfully Before you write a resignation letter, it's important to communicate your decision personally and respectfully to the leader or pastor you report to. Explain your reasons honestly but kindly, emphasizing that this decision is about what's best for both you and the church.
The best thing to do is to explain the reasons for leaving so that the church is not hurt or mystified as to why you are leaving. You have been part of a body so it is as if an arm is being wrenched off by leaving. Inevitably some people will feel hurt by you leaving so you need to explain well to them.
So, here are a few thoughts about how to leave a church well, with one bonus thought at the end. 1) Pray about it. Sometimes people leave their church for the right reasons, and sometimes not. 2) Take responsibility. 3) Communicate. 4) Be kind. 5) Go to church somewhere. Love like Jesus.
Share some of the meaningful experiences, lessons, or memories you're taking with you. Highlight how the church has helped you grow in your faith. Acknowledge the relationships you're leaving behind and let people know you'll miss them. Offer to stay in touch if appropriate. Keep the tone positive and hopeful.
Let them know why you are leaving the church. If they are not preaching and teaching biblical truths, write it in the letter. If the congregation has made you feel bad about yourself, include that in the letter too. Whatever your reason or reasons are for leaving the church, write it down in your letter.
Let your pastor know the main reasons you are leaving, but do so with humility, love and grace. Be wise and thoughtful about this. Be sure to let your pastor know some of the things you are thankful for regarding your time at your church. I'm sure there are plenty of things you are thankful for.
Dear Name of Head Pastor, Please accept this letter as formal notice of my resignation as Position Name at Church Name, effective as of Resignation Date. After significant consideration, I have decided to reason for leaving, ex: “move to another part of the state”.
So, here are a few thoughts about how to leave a church well, with one bonus thought at the end. 1) Pray about it. Sometimes people leave their church for the right reasons, and sometimes not. 2) Take responsibility. 3) Communicate. 4) Be kind. 5) Go to church somewhere. Love like Jesus.
Adam's Blog: How to Leave a Church Well Pray about it. Sometimes people leave their church for the right reasons, and sometimes not. Take responsibility. Communicate. Be kind. Go to church somewhere.