If you were received as a church member at confirmation you can send a letter to the church and ask that you membership be terminated. We cannot claim you are not a baptized member once you have been baptized.The Book of Discipline provides that members can be removed from the membership role if they "transfer, die or have withdrawn from membership. If the member does not comply with any of the available alternatives over a period of two years, the member's name may be removed. "if a professing member residing in a community is negligent of the vows or is regularly absent from the worship of the church without a valid reason . . .