Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. Entering into, engaging with, and departing from Christ's local body is a significant part of following Jesus.This guide will help users cite the Bible, and Bible dictionaries, encyclopedias, commentaries, and atlases. The people are located too far away. How do I communicate my reasons for leaving gracefully and honestly to my church? Church members should exercise graciousness and courtesy in leaving a church. Stand strong in the Lord for He is able to make you stand. God gives us strength to face today and tomorrow. Simply stop attending. If someone calls on the pretext of finding out if you missed because you're unwell say, "I had other plans.