I joined TNPC last month; however, I still need to write the letter officially terminating my membership at my parents' Methodist Church. You're always free to leave your congregation and join another, and you have not an excuse but a reason you will not be attending.Membership is controlled at the local level. Drew McIntyre and Rev. If a pastor is informed that a member has without notice united with a church of another denomination, the pastor shall make diligent inquiry. _____ I do not intend to return to ______, please remove my name from the membership rolls of.