Dear Chairman Board of Elders,. I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church.Contact the local church where you attended or were baptized. Membership is controlled at the local level. Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. I joined TNPC last month; however, I still need to write the letter officially terminating my membership at my parents' Methodist Church. "Transferring your letter" is more of a perfunctory act between churches who are merely shuffling members as though they are numbers on a score board. A member can submit their intention to resign to the church, and the church will either accept or reject that intention. Joseph's Church up-date. The instant my participation was announced, those attacks started up again.