Entering into, engaging with, and departing from Christ's local body is a significant part of following Jesus. The best thing to do is to explain the reasons for leaving so that the church is not hurt or mystified as to why you are leaving."Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God. Here are seven steps that can help you make this transition in a way that honors God and demonstrates love for others. In order to say 'no,' we have to believe that our identity lies in whom God says we are, not in whom others might think we are. How do I communicate my reasons for leaving gracefully and honestly to my church? It can always throw up surprises, as a lawyer's letter is about to prove. In the Baptist church. Free archive of digitized historic newspapers from Georgia 1763–present. 1980 Finding Out About Bible Times.