I joined TNPC last month; however, I still need to write the letter officially terminating my membership at my parents' Methodist Church. _____ Please withdraw my membership with the understanding that, at any time in the future, I may have my membership reinstated._____ I now live in. You can do is to end your membership in The UMC. If a pastor is informed that a member has without notice united with a church of another denomination, the pastor shall make diligent inquiry. The Book of Discipline provides that members can be removed from the membership role if they "transfer, die or have withdrawn from membership." The Right Reverend Sally Dyck, Bishop of the. Northern Illinois Annual Conference of the. Access the Exhibit,Appendix in the Wesley United Methodist Church v.