Dear Chairman Board of Elders,. I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church.Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. If you want to homeschool, you'll need to write a school withdrawal letter if your child is attending a public or private school. See tips and samples here. You are allowed to resign from a church whenever you wish to do so, no matter what your covenant, church constitution or designated church leader says. _____ Please withdraw my membership with the understanding that, at any time in the future, I may have my membership reinstated. _____ I now live in. Below, we'll take a look at some of the options available and two sample letters to remove a board member. I have the intention of writing and submitting a letter to the church I was a part of that would basically entail withdrawing my membership.