Why not just ask them to send a letter of "good standing" to the new church, and drop your name from their rolls? Write a letter to or call the church's office and ask to withdraw membership and remove your information from their records.Karen's Withdrawal of TVC Membership Letter - Free download as Word Doc (. If a pastor reports your "sins" to a new church after receiving your letter of resignation, seek legal advice. In subsequent BCO reprints, marginal bullets and underlining for previous years are deleted.