You can always write a formal letter to your local church board stating your request and the reasons why. Trespass upon church or school property.Parental consent must be obtained in writing, prior to FCPS staff members completing the initial evaluation. First, you will need to contact the Zoning Department and fill out a Use Permit Application. Some have concluded that a church member needs permission from the elders to leave a church. Go to the Parent Digital Consent System. Select your language and log in with the same username and password you use for SIS ParentVUE. Located in the South Patient Tower on the 1st floor. Author: Brittney Melton. Kids who have no say but to live out the horror of a big man forcing himself on them without their consent.