Dear Chairman Board of Elders,. I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church.If you are joining another church, the pastor will contact your previous church and ask for a letter of transfer. NOTE TO MEMBER: The church requires a signed request from each person requesting withdrawal. This form should be given to your pastor for processing. Got my membership withdrawal letter. The short answer: No. I am looking for some advice on how to resign my membership at my church, on good terms, but still occasionally attend. _____ Please withdraw my membership with the understanding that, at any time in the future, I may have my membership reinstated. _____ I now live in.