Kindly consider what you have just read. Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length.Try to leave graciously. Church members should exercise graciousness and courtesy in leaving a church. I would read Acts and remind myself that God does not lie, so if I believe on Jesus I am saved. As I read and claimed these verses, I would find peace. As previously acknowledged, there are sound biblical reasons for leaving a church. At the same time, no Christian should make a habit of it. How is it that you came in here without a wedding garment? New Church Worthies. Rev.