Most churches thin their membership lists every so often. If they haven't seen in in a year or two, they figure you've left.You can always write a formal letter to your local church board stating your request and the reasons why. One cultural "Christian" tradition in the Bible Belt is an activity called "transferring your letter. Visitor or newcomer, welcome to St. Joseph Parish. We are saints that often struggle. Person filling out the form. We want to do anything we can do to overcome that feeling. Hillsborough Reformed Church at Millstone has a long, proud history. Our mission is to know Jesus, follow Jesus, and serve others in Jesus' name.