If you were received as a church member at confirmation you can send a letter to the church and ask that you membership be terminated. And ask that if you're still officially a member, you'd like to be removed.I joined TNPC last month; however, I still need to write the letter officially terminating my membership at my parents' Methodist Church. The membership committee has included your name in a list of persons believed to have become inactive in the life of. Submit a written request to withdraw, noting in the letter that you can not locate your original certificate.