Dear Chairman Board of Elders,. I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church.How do I write a letter to change my church membership? This is an almost unanswerable question without context. The short answer: No. Termination of Membership. Membership in the Church may terminate in the following ways: (a) Members in Good Standing. Withdrawing fellowship is not a phrase found in the Bible, and the way most churches practice corrective discipline is contrary to New Testament teaching. "I am no longer a member of this church. I do not need your permission, nor do I care whether or not you agree with my decision. "Signed,.