Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. Also, the elders may not be able to give you a letter of transfer or a good letter of standing to take to the next assembly.It is with deep sadness that I write to you to resign from the Council of Delegates of the Christian Reformed Church. Communicate clearly and graciously. I recommend doing this in person, on the phone, or through a thoughtful, personal email. You have made a decision to leave but what about the decisions you made here? Customizing your Leaving a Church Letter is easy with Jotform Sign. If people are gracious enough to let me know they are leaving, I write them a letter and thank them for their attendance and past service. Join us on an exclusive, custom-designed journey from Norway's majestic fjords to the Scottish Highlands. We'll cruise to ports.