You can always write a formal letter to your local church board stating your request and the reasons why. I am looking for some advice on how to resign my membership at my church, on good terms, but still occasionally attend.The bishop or stake president oversees membership restrictions or withdrawal as outlined in 32.5–32.14. Church membership is a job. You're expected to show up for work (Heb. –25). In the case of a withdrawal a simple announcement that someone has withdrawn from the church should suffice. Keep it short and to the point. Why does the Seventh-day Adventist Church have a Church Manual? God is a God of order as evidenced in His works of creation and redemption. Conclude your church service with a heartfelt closing prayer that inspires and uplifts the congregation.