You can always write a formal letter to your local church board stating your request and the reasons why. Dear Chairman Board of Elders,.I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church. I am looking for some advice on how to resign my membership at my church, on good terms, but still occasionally attend. In the case of a withdrawal a simple announcement that someone has withdrawn from the church should suffice. Keep it short and to the point. _____ Please withdraw my membership with the understanding that, at any time in the future, I may have my membership reinstated. _____ I now live in. NOTE TO MEMBER: The church requires a signed request from each person requesting withdrawal. This form should be given to your pastor for processing.