Dear Chairman Board of Elders,. I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church.You can do is to end your membership in The UMC. I am looking for some advice on how to resign my membership at my church, on good terms, but still occasionally attend. I have the intention of writing and submitting a letter to the church I was a part of that would basically entail withdrawing my membership. Ers, organized the Church of the Nazarene at Los Angeles,. If you quietly resume your faith habit, no one will notice you've been gone. You'll miss out on all the hoop-la. □ Notice of Withdrawal. □ Important Reminders.