You can do is to end your membership in The UMC. The Book of Discipline provides that members can be removed from the membership role if they "transfer, die or have withdrawn from membership."If the member does not comply with any of the available alternatives over a period of two years, the member's name may be removed. The mission of The United Methodist Church to make disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world. The United Methodist Church has a long history of differing views about homosexuality. Ask The UMC explains the current positions.