My hope for every professing member of a church is to find that happiness and to nurture it in the church. If you were received as a church member at confirmation you can send a letter to the church and ask that you membership be terminated.After everyone has returned to the sanctuary you will be asked to fill out the ballot and hand it to a member of the ballot team. Why not just ask them to send a letter of "good standing" to the new church, and drop your name from their rolls?