If a pastor is informed that a member has without notice united with a church of another denomination, the pastor shall make diligent inquiry. Some courts understand general consent to the.United Methodist constitution as consent to partake in a trust relationship. You can do is to end your membership in The UMC. Repealing a requirement that the assets of any Methodist Church be held in trust for the United Methodist Church and be subject to the control of the Church. No church has to disaffiliate. And no member of the UMC is required to leave when they disagree with the Book of Discipline. The membership of the church may remove, with or without cause, one or more board members at a meeting of the church membership. The United Methodist Church (UMC) is a worldwide mainline Protestant denomination based in the United States, and a major part of Methodism. Pastors have always decided who they will marry in The United Methodist Church, and this will not change.