I joined TNPC last month; however, I still need to write the letter officially terminating my membership at my parents' Methodist Church. Dear Chairman Board of Elders,.I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church. You can always write a formal letter to your local church board stating your request and the reasons why. "I am no longer a member of this church. I do not need your permission, nor do I care whether or not you agree with my decision. "Signed,. I have found some churches deny the withdrawal of membership while under church discipline. Good cause does not exist if the Contractor seeks to terminate a. For years, questions about women's ministry roles have caused turmoil in the SBC. Tion, and (2) that sex is not a but-for cause in the decision.