You can always write a formal letter to your local church board stating your request and the reasons why. Write a letter to or call the church's office and ask to withdraw membership and remove your information from their records.I want to discuss how you can respectfully dismiss members from your church when it is necessary. To begin with, let's look at a court case. Consenting to a Magistrate Judge. Your case may be resolved more quickly if you consent to a magistrate judge. Complete the marriage license application form. You may also get an application form at the Local Registrar's office. I have found some churches deny the withdrawal of membership while under church discipline. Family Promise delivers innovative solutions for family homelessness including prevention, shelter, and stabilization services.