I joined TNPC last month; however, I still need to write the letter officially terminating my membership at my parents' Methodist Church. Dear Chairman Board of Elders,.I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church. Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. "I am no longer a member of this church. I do not need your permission, nor do I care whether or not you agree with my decision. "Signed,. Conclude your church service with a heartfelt closing prayer that inspires and uplifts the congregation. I am looking for some advice on how to resign my membership at my church, on good terms, but still occasionally attend. A group shuns when the people in it reject and even erase someone who has belonged. Also called ostracism or social rejection, shunning creates exiles.