Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. Also, the elders may not be able to give you a letter of transfer or a good letter of standing to take to the next assembly.Generally, if a requested notarial act is lawful, the Notary should not refuse to perform it. Here are inappropriate reasons to refuse a notarization. Communicate clearly and graciously. I recommend doing this in person, on the phone, or through a thoughtful, personal email. Application for Permanent Certificate of Permission for first time applicants or previous certificate holders residing in Washoe County, Nevada. If people are gracious enough to let me know they are leaving, I write them a letter and thank them for their attendance and past service. Present all the details required to officially leave your church and ensure that all required parties sign and receive a copy. Allowed to leave my rooms unless per Nevada Steam Planning Mill.