You can always write a formal letter to your local church board stating your request and the reasons why. I am looking for some advice on how to resign my membership at my church, on good terms, but still occasionally attend.The Division of Human Rights complaint form is available at the below link. You may use this form to file and submit your complaint online. The church membership ordinarily must be notified of the date, time, and place of both annual and special membership meetings. You are allowed to resign from a church whenever you wish to do so, no matter what your covenant, church constitution or designated church leader says. It is hoped that affiliate members who remain in the New York metropolitan area for more than three years would transfer to full membership. ii. There were disturbing political confrontations. These instructions are designed to provide some guidance, and if you need other help, please contact your diocesan office. I'm admitted in New York but practice out-of-state.