Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. I joined TNPC last month; however, I still need to write the letter officially terminating my membership at my parents' Methodist Church.Dear Chairman Board of Elders,. I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church. "I am no longer a member of this church. I do not need your permission, nor do I care whether or not you agree with my decision. "Signed,. I want to discuss how you can respectfully dismiss members from your church when it is necessary. To begin with, let's look at a court case. My friends, I must say to you that we have not made a single gain civil rights without determined legal and nonviolent pressure. My request is for detailed verification of the Oakland Department of Transportation's authority over foot paths between private residences in the Oakland hills.