Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. I did leave, and am now in a new place much better for me.Thank you, thank you, for all you've done, for your sweet heart for the Lord and for your neighbors. "Thank you for reading my letter. Entering into, engaging with, and departing from Christ's local body is a significant part of following Jesus. Dear Chairman Board of Elders,. I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church. It is with deep sadness that I write to you to resign from the Council of Delegates of the Christian Reformed Church. We love each of you so much, and are very sad to say goodbye. We have grown so much during our time here.