If it's a very formal church, they may want you to withdraw your membership in the congregation. Most churches thin their membership lists every so often.If they haven't seen in in a year or two, they figure you've left. Can they not participate in any events? Can they not attend church? If you have never been to UMCPB then click the "Plan My Experience" button and we will make sure you have the best time when you come. Digital resources to help you engage with our Sunday messages and support your spiritual growth at our South FL locations. I am looking for some advice on how to resign my membership at my church, on good terms, but still occasionally attend. We've created a simple way for you to schedule a visit and receive a reminder. Here's how to do it.