Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. What is a gracious way to leave the church?A church resignation letter is a formal written notice announcing the intention to leave a position with a religious organization. Customizing your Leaving a Church Letter is easy with Jotform Sign. Try to leave graciously. Keep your former church in your prayers and speak well of it. I did leave, and am now in a new place much better for me. Thank you, thank you, for all you've done, for your sweet heart for the Lord and for your neighbors. Rector's Reflections A Weekly Commentary By The Rev. For me, or mourn for me.