If a pastor is informed that a member has without notice united with a church of another denomination, the pastor shall make diligent inquiry. The ONLY way to be ENTIRELY removed from The UMC is transfer.This is grounded in our theology of baptism and membership. You can do is to end your membership in The UMC. The Book of Discipline provides that members can be removed from the membership role if they "transfer, die or have withdrawn from membership." To begin the process of clearing your record in San Bernardino County, fill out the form below (two parts). Charles Donnelly attended the annual meeting of the Woman's Missionary societies of Chaffey district held in the Methodist church in Upland. Mrs. First 5 San Bernardino.