1. He is a cleric in good standing. 2. He has never been suspended or otherwise canonically disciplined. 3.The Letter of Good Standing is a notarized document that establishes your good standing with the ULC and is necessary when performing a wedding in some areas. Listed below are brief descriptions of common types of child care programs in New York State. You have to first obtain a Marriage License and then have a Marriage Ceremony in the City Clerk's Office or a Marriage Ceremony outside the City Clerk's Office. To Whom It May Concern,.