Simply send a letter and wish them God's blessing. Explain that you are moving and are ending you membership.There are other evidences to support local church membership in the Scriptures. I have found some churches deny the withdrawal of membership while under church discipline. Relationship we then see being worked out in the early church. Resources needed: • Bibles. I am looking for some advice on how to resign my membership at my church, on good terms, but still occasionally attend. We just grateful you're here and love to know that you're here. In its final, formal, and public stage, church discipline involves removing a church member from membership in the church and participation in the Lord's Table. Biblical guide to leaving a church with minimum guilt or doubt.