Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. "I am no longer a member of this church.I do not need your permission, nor do I care whether or not you agree with my decision. "Signed,. Don't let problems or convictions linger or fester indefinitely. Most wise people I know who left a church graciously wrote a letter to the leadership simply explaining that the Lord was moving them on. Customizing your Leaving a Church Letter is easy with Jotform Sign. Now Texas Baptists are excited to make available the Fourth Edition of Keeping Your. Church out of Court to new generations of church leaders. I did leave, and am now in a new place much better for me. Thank you, thank you, for all you've done, for your sweet heart for the Lord and for your neighbors.