Dear Chairman Board of Elders,. I am writing to withdraw my membership from Grace Community Church.I joined TNPC last month; however, I still need to write the letter officially terminating my membership at my parents' Methodist Church. Write a long, nasty, mean-spirited letter to explain everything that they dislike about the church and articulate their own self-pity at length. I write today to announce my resignation as Rector of the Church of BethesdabytheSea. Church members should exercise graciousness and courtesy in leaving a church. She had a template for a letter of church membership that explained that I had terminated my membership in good standing on the effective date. B. By written request to terminate membership;. 186. Close submenuChurches. Why is Edwards's recovery of the idea of regenerate church membership important?