The best thing to do is to explain the reasons for leaving so that the church is not hurt or mystified as to why you are leaving. I did leave, and am now in a new place much better for me.Thank you, thank you, for all you've done, for your sweet heart for the Lord and for your neighbors. Be honest, be upfront, and be loving and gentle. If people are gracious enough to let me know they are leaving, I write them a letter and thank them for their attendance and past service. Entering into, engaging with, and departing from Christ's local body is a significant part of following Jesus. It is with deep sadness that I write to you to resign from the Council of Delegates of the Christian Reformed Church. We have a set of church resignation letter templates that you could choose from. These printable letters are guaranteed to be of quality. Dear Chairman Board of Elders,.