Everything you need to write a declaration letter to the judge in your custody case: an example, a downloadable template, an outline and tips. These are the official forms for use in Family Court proceedings.In the middle u lay out what u see as a conflict or issue. These forms and instructions are available in the General Clerk's Office, Room 108, in the Nassau County. Citation Form (Word doc) - This is a general citation for use for noting a motion on the court docket. It can be used for civil, domestic or criminal cases. If there is a Children's Lawyer or Child Advocates office, ask them to investigate. Ask them to present an opinion on which parent is best. What parents and witnesses need to know about character reference letters to the court for child custody. Includes a downloadable sample and template.