The Virginia Judicial System has a number of forms for each court available on the court's form page. Everything you need to write a declaration letter to the judge in your custody case: an example, a downloadable template, an outline and tips.This article provides a comprehensive guide to writing a declaration letter for child custody cases, including a sample letter. In the middle u lay out what u see as a conflict or issue. Sample 2 – Child Custody Character Reference Letter. 1. Heading and Greeting. About Us Careers Contact Us. VDSS Search Search Icon. What parents and witnesses need to know about character reference letters to the court for child custody. Includes a downloadable sample and template. How to Fill Out Revisable PDF Forms.