Is a hug acceptable? What should I ask the prospective match and how do we deal with the arranged marriage first meeting?The Historic Alameda City Hall offers civil ceremonies Monday through Thursday from 9 a.m. The action centers around finding the third sister, Yukiko, a suitable marriage partner. Matchmakers busily scour the field in search of eligible bachelors. Marriage Services of Alameda County. The practice continues today on a smaller scale. What questions should a guy ask a girl in an arranged marriage? Submission accepted by. Sometimes it's being far from home and seemingly far from consequences.