Two hours before saying Yes. Within two hours I was able to understand her.In-person and virtual (Zoom) marriage and civil union ceremonies are available for couples in Chicago. Should i ask her about her past? Can u all suggest me what questions should i ask her??? Is a hug acceptable? Fill out and sign a marriage license application. Present valid identification with proof of age. They reached out to the impoverished neighborhood with goodwill, day care, discussion groups, bath houses, and the first playground in Chicago. Adalina: I never wanted an arranged marriage, especially not to a man I loathe.