It is an arrangement in which the parents or the close relatives arrange the marriage or, in better words, find a suitable match for their daughter or son. "If Love Was Forced" is a story of a girl who was arranged to marry a guy who didn't love her.When I was 21, my dad told me to meet this one guy. Sofia Diaz, known as an angel. King of Wrath Ana Huang. Relatives would advise my parents to lock me inside the house to show me my right place in the kitchen. Marriage back then was not based on love; most marriages were political arrangements. Husbands and wives were generally strangers until they first met. In an arranged marriage, the two spouses do not choose each other. Instead, others, usually their parents or guardians, make the selection and arrange the date.