Basically cover a lot of topics so that you can find out what are her interests and keeping the conversation engaging. Also, ask questions."If Love Was Forced" is a story of a girl who was arranged to marry a guy who didn't love her. Brian Hershman is an experienced civil litigator and former federal prosecutor who has been lead trial counsel in more than a dozen state and federal trials. Young South Asians looking for love and over dating apps are exploring an option they once saw as ancient: arranged marriage. Discover the dynamics of an arranged marriage first meeting and hear relatable experiences of my arranged wife and family expectations.