In an arranged marriage, what should a boy ask a girl in the first meeting? Discover the dynamics of an arranged marriage first meeting and hear relatable experiences of my arranged wife and family expectations."I'm 29, single, and in that phase of my life where I'm meeting guys for arranged marriage. And the experience has been absolutely irritating! Arranged marriages can work as long as both partners give it time, and are willing to look past the small things. In an arranged marriage, the two spouses do not choose each other. Instead, others, usually their parents or guardians, make the selection and arrange the date. How to protect, advise and support victims of forced marriage, including information and practice guidelines for professionals.